Sukhe dukhe same kritvaa.......
सुख दुखे समे कृत्वा लाभालाभौ जयाजयौ | ततो युद्धाय युज्यस्व नैवम् पापमवाप्स्यसि || This is a verse from Bhagavad-Gita. It was transmitted to Arjuna from ShriKrishna when Arjuna was haunted by duality - between siding with his brother to fight for right, and having to face and possibly slay his teachers and revered elders. Here the Lord says, "If you were to fight in the war, just like you are supposed to take pleasure and pain, loss and gain, victory and defeat equally, then you would not gain any sin". My 2 words: "If we were to feel comfortable in the multiple highs and lows of our life, then we too would not be lured into committing more mistakes". Let's meet again!